Archive for the ‘Dating Advice’ Category

How To Attract Men

Friday, September 4th, 2009

If you are a single woman who is either looking for someone new to spend time with or you are already involved with a man, you may be wondering how to get and keep his attention. There are some simple ways for women to attract men and employing one or all will give you amazing results.

One of the best ways for women to attract men is to be witty. Men love a woman who has fun and has a vibrant outlook on the world. When you are spending time either talking to someone you’ve just met or chatting with your boyfriend, keep a humorous tone to the conversation. This doesn’t mean that you should tease him endlessly. Also, never use self deprecating humor to get him to smile. Instead keep the conversation light and fun at times. He’ll appreciate the clever side to your personality and men really enjoy women who can make them smile.

Being honest is a huge turn on to a man. Men like women who are genuine. This means telling it like it is. If he asks what you do for a living and you are tempted to spice it up by making it sound better than it is, he may see through the charade. Be upfront and answer all his questions truthfully. You never know when a chance meeting can turn into a potential long term love affair. You want to be who you really are from the get go. Men can tell when a woman is embellishing her life to impress them.

Don’t overdress. One of the mistakes that many women make is to wear provocative clothing because they think men will chase them. Men judge who you are as a person by what you wear. Don’t be too heavy with the make up and just a light touch of perfume is always right. You want to give him the impression that you value yourself and that you aren’t defined by what’s spilling out of your clothes. Showing less is always the best thing to do.

Never compare yourself to other women. One of the best ways for women to attract men is to show they aren’t intimated by other women. If you really feel the need to react when a man looks the way of another girl, make a positive comment about her. If you say something nice about her purse, shoes or clothing he’ll instantly think you’re not the jealous type. Men love women who exude tons of self confidence.

Another of the effective ways for women to attract men is to stay involved in their own lives. The minute you become always available to a man, you start to be boring. Never give up your own interests to fit in with those of a man you are involved with. Men love a woman who has a full and rich life. You’ll always be interesting to him if you don’t spend all your time fawning over him.

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Dating After 30

Friday, March 6th, 2009

Chances are that the reasons you are over thirty and still single are the very same things that will make it difficult to date now. It is not always about finding the right person, you also have to be the right person. As hard as it may be to admit, dating after 30 may require some behavior modification on your part because, as you can see, whatever you are doing right now is not working. If you are a workaholic whose job has always come before their personal life, it may be time to reevaluate your priorities. If it is a fear of commitment that has been keeping you from having successful relationships, until you address that problem it won’t get any easier.

Dating is difficult at any age, no one is arguing that point. Still, it does seem that once you enter the third decade of your life the singles pool starts to empty out a bit. Some people think they have to start lowering their standards, but there are still a lot of great single people your age if you know where to look. You are still allowed to be just as picky and discerning as you were in your twenties.

There are a lot of reasons that dating in your 30’s can actually be the best time to date. Men tend to be more established and stable by the time they’ve reached their thirties, not to mention mature. You have a better chance of finding a man that actually wants to go to a wine tasting with you instead of convincing you to drive him and his buddies to the Incubus concert. Women in their thirties are often much more confident and independent than they were ten years ago. Nothing against the twenty-something girls, but they can often be a little needy, which is great if that’s what you’re looking for but a nightmare if you’re not.

It’s the age of the internet so you had to know this was going to come up. Online dating is bigger and broader than it’s ever been before. Though people still meet up randomly in chat rooms and hit it off, now there are personality profiles and background checks involved. Blind dating has gone high tech, but don’t get so caught up that you forget people have been meeting without the internet for centuries.

Good old-fashioned dating is a lot less common these days, especially as technology becomes a larger part of our lives. There are still ways to meet a prospective mate face to face, starting with first names instead of screen names. You can volunteer for your favorite charity, hospital or organization and it serves several purposes. Not only will it surround you with people who share your interests, but you’re giving something back to your community in the process. Sports leagues can also be great ways to meet people if you’re the athletic type. Even when you’re not meeting someone special you’re having a good time.

Whether you have been out of the game for a while and you’re returning or you’re a regular that just hasn’t found that special someone yet, dating can be tough. It’s basically trying people on for size and seeing how they fit. You rarely ever find perfectly fitting jeans in the first pair you try on, they may not even be in that store. The best thing you can do is just enjoy the shopping trip and when you least expect it the right ones will find you.